follower receive a hello message before actual data

the leader can ensure the follower has connected

weed/mq/broker/broker_grpc_pub_follow.go

@@ -8,11 +8,15 @@ import (
 	"github.com/seaweedfs/seaweedfs/weed/pb/mq_pb"
 	"io"
 	"math/rand"
+	"sync"
 	"time"
 )
 
 func (b *MessageQueueBroker)  PublishFollowMe(c context.Context, request *mq_pb.PublishFollowMeRequest) (*mq_pb.PublishFollowMeResponse, error){
 	glog.V(0).Infof("PublishFollowMe %v", request)
+	var wg sync.WaitGroup
+	wg.Add(1)
+	var ret error
 	go b.withBrokerClient(true, pb.ServerAddress(request.BrokerSelf), func(client mq_pb.SeaweedMessagingClient) error {
 		followerId := rand.Int31()
 		subscribeClient, err := client.FollowInMemoryMessages(context.Background(), &mq_pb.FollowInMemoryMessagesRequest{
@@ -30,16 +34,30 @@ func (b *MessageQueueBroker)  PublishFollowMe(c context.Context, request *mq_pb.
 				},
 			},
 		})
+
 		if err != nil {
 			glog.Errorf("FollowInMemoryMessages error: %v", err)
+			ret = err
 			return err
 		}
 
+		// receive first hello message
+		resp, err := subscribeClient.Recv()
+		if err != nil {
+			return fmt.Errorf("FollowInMemoryMessages recv first message error: %v", err)
+		}
+		if resp == nil {
+			glog.V(0).Infof("doFollowInMemoryMessage recv first message nil response")
+			return io.ErrUnexpectedEOF
+		}
+		wg.Done()
+
 		b.doFollowInMemoryMessage(context.Background(), subscribeClient)
 
 		return nil
 	})
-	return &mq_pb.PublishFollowMeResponse{}, nil
+	wg.Wait()
+	return &mq_pb.PublishFollowMeResponse{}, ret
 }
 
 func (b *MessageQueueBroker) doFollowInMemoryMessage(c context.Context, client mq_pb.SeaweedMessaging_FollowInMemoryMessagesClient) {