Refactor Helm chart to use dynamic names for resources (#8142)

* Refactor Helm chart to use dynamic names for resources

* ensure name length

k8s/charts/seaweedfs/templates/all-in-one/all-in-one-servicemonitor.yaml

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@
 apiVersion: monitoring.coreos.com/v1
 kind: ServiceMonitor
 metadata:
-  name: {{ template "seaweedfs.name" . }}-all-in-one
+  name: {{ include "seaweedfs.fullname" . }}-all-in-one
   namespace: {{ .Release.Namespace }}
   labels:
     app.kubernetes.io/name: {{ template "seaweedfs.name" . }}
@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ spec:
   selector:
     matchLabels:
       app.kubernetes.io/name: {{ template "seaweedfs.name" . }}
+      app.kubernetes.io/instance: {{ .Release.Name }}
       app.kubernetes.io/component: seaweedfs-all-in-one
 {{- end }}
 {{- end }}