mount: add -asyncDio flag for async direct I/O (#7922)

* mount: add -asyncDio flag for async direct I/O

This adds support for async direct I/O via the -asyncDio flag.

Async DIO enables the FUSE_CAP_ASYNC_DIO capability, allowing the kernel
to perform direct I/O operations asynchronously. This improves concurrency
for applications that use O_DIRECT flag.

Benefits:
- Better concurrency for direct I/O operations
- Improved performance for applications using O_DIRECT
- Reduced blocking on I/O operations

Use cases:
- Database workloads that use direct I/O
- Applications that bypass page cache intentionally
- High-performance I/O scenarios

Implementation inspired by JuiceFS which enables this capability
for improved I/O performance.

Usage:
  weed mount -filer=localhost:8888 -dir=/mnt/seaweedfs -asyncDio

* mount: add all remaining FUSE options (asyncDio, cacheSymlink, novncache)

This combines the remaining three FUSE mount options on top of the merged writebackCache PR:

1. asyncDio: Enable async direct I/O for better concurrency
2. cacheSymlink: Enable symlink caching to reduce metadata lookups
3. novncache: (macOS only) Disable vnode name caching to avoid stale data

All options use the function parameter 'option' instead of global 'mountOptions'.

weed/command/mount_std.go

@@ -208,7 +208,9 @@ func RunMount(option *MountOptions, umask os.FileMode) bool {
 		if runtime.GOARCH == "amd64" {
 			fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "noapplexattr")
 		}
-		// fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "novncache") // need to test effectiveness
+		if *option.novncache {
+			fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "novncache")
+		}
 		fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "slow_statfs")
 		fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "volname="+serverFriendlyName)
 		fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, fmt.Sprintf("iosize=%d", ioSizeMB*1024*1024))
@@ -217,6 +219,12 @@ func RunMount(option *MountOptions, umask os.FileMode) bool {
 	if *option.writebackCache {
 		fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "writeback_cache")
 	}
+	if *option.asyncDio {
+		fuseMountOptions.Options = append(fuseMountOptions.Options, "async_dio")
+	}
+	if *option.cacheSymlink {
+		fuseMountOptions.EnableSymlinkCaching = true
+	}
 
 	// find mount point
 	mountRoot := filerMountRootPath