mount: refresh and evict hot dir cache (#8174)

* mount: refresh and evict hot dir cache

* mount: guard dir update window and extend TTL

* mount: reuse timestamp for cache mark

* Apply suggestion from @gemini-code-assist[bot]

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* mount: make dir cache tuning configurable

* mount: dedupe dir update notices

* mount: restore invalidate-all cache helper

* mount: keep hot dir tuning constants

* mount: centralize cache state reset

* mount: mark refresh completion time

* mount: allow disabling idle eviction

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weed/mount/weedfs_file_mkrm.go

@@ -91,6 +91,7 @@ func (wfs *WFS) Mknod(cancel <-chan struct{}, in *fuse.MknodIn, name string, out
 		// Only cache the entry if the parent directory is already cached.
 		// This avoids polluting the cache with partial directory data.
 		if wfs.metaCache.IsDirectoryCached(dirFullPath) {
+			wfs.inodeToPath.TouchDirectory(dirFullPath)
 			if err := wfs.metaCache.InsertEntry(context.Background(), filer.FromPbEntry(request.Directory, request.Entry)); err != nil {
 				return fmt.Errorf("local mknod %s: %w", entryFullPath, err)
 			}
@@ -153,6 +154,7 @@ func (wfs *WFS) Unlink(cancel <-chan struct{}, header *fuse.InHeader, name strin
 		glog.V(3).Infof("local DeleteEntry %s: %v", entryFullPath, err)
 		return fuse.EIO
 	}
+	wfs.inodeToPath.TouchDirectory(dirFullPath)
 
 	wfs.inodeToPath.RemovePath(entryFullPath)