do delete expired entries on s3 list request (#7426)

* do delete expired entries on s3 list request
https://github.com/seaweedfs/seaweedfs/issues/6837

* disable delete expires s3 entry in filer

* pass opt allowDeleteObjectsByTTL to all servers

* delete on get and head

* add lifecycle expiration s3 tests

* fix opt allowDeleteObjectsByTTL for server

* fix test lifecycle expiration

* fix IsExpired

* fix locationPrefix for updateEntriesTTL

* fix s3tests

* resolv  coderabbitai

* GetS3ExpireTime on filer

* go mod

* clear TtlSeconds for volume

* move s3 delete expired entry to filer

* filer delete meta and data

* del unusing func removeExpiredObject

* test s3 put

* test s3 put multipart

* allowDeleteObjectsByTTL by default

* fix pipline tests

* rm dublicate SeaweedFSExpiresS3

* revert expiration tests

* fix updateTTL

* rm log

* resolv comment

* fix delete version object

* fix S3Versioning

* fix delete on FindEntry

* fix delete chunks

* fix sqlite not support concurrent writes/reads

* move deletion out of listing transaction; delete entries and empty folders

* Revert "fix sqlite not support concurrent writes/reads"

This reverts commit 5d5da14e0ed91c613fe5c0ed058f58bb04fba6f0.

* clearer handling on recursive empty directory deletion

* handle listing errors

* strut copying

* reuse code to delete empty folders

* use iterative approach with a queue to avoid recursive WithFilerClient calls

* stop a gRPC stream from the client-side callback is to return a specific error, e.g., io.EOF

* still issue UpdateEntry when the flag must be added

* errors join

* join path

* cleaner

* add context, sort directories by depth (deepest first) to avoid redundant checks

* batched operation, refactoring

* prevent deleting bucket

* constant

* reuse code

* more logging

* refactoring

* s3 TTL time

* Safety check

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Co-authored-by: chrislu <chris.lu@gmail.com>

weed/s3api/s3_constants/header.go

@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@ const (
 	SeaweedFSIsDirectoryKey = "X-Seaweedfs-Is-Directory-Key"
 	SeaweedFSPartNumber     = "X-Seaweedfs-Part-Number"
 	SeaweedFSUploadId       = "X-Seaweedfs-Upload-Id"
+	SeaweedFSExpiresS3      = "X-Seaweedfs-Expires-S3"
 
 	// S3 ACL headers
 	AmzCannedAcl      = "X-Amz-Acl"